Resources

Where to turn, and who each one is for

Vetted organisations for addiction and mental health support – grouped so you can find the right door on the first try instead of the fifth.

If this is an emergency

If someone is unresponsive, has stopped breathing, is in severe withdrawal, or is at immediate risk of harming themselves, call emergency services now – 911 in Canada and the USA, 112 in India. In Canada you can also reach the Suicide Crisis Helpline by calling or texting 988. Everything on this page is health information, not emergency care.

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Punjabi-specific support

If language, culture or family expectations are part of what is making this hard, start with these. They were built for our community specifically.

Asra

Punjabi families · alcohol

A starting point built specifically for Punjabi families struggling with alcohol use and looking for help. Culturally grounded, and written for the family as much as for the person drinking.

Punjabi Community Health Services

Canada · addiction & mental health

A long-established organisation delivering addiction, mental health and family services to South Asian communities in Canada, with school prevention programmes in Punjab. 

Taraki

Punjabi communities · mental health

Works with Punjabi communities on mental health through awareness, education and research particularly good if you want to understand the cultural dimension along with clinical.  

Treatment

Detox, rehab & treatment programmes

Detox rehabs are facilities designed to help people overcome substance use through a combination of medical detoxification and rehabilitation programming.

Path To Freedom

British Columbia · residential

A comprehensive 90-day treatment programme with daily activities centred on recovery and on learning how to stay recovered – the second half being the part most programmes skip.

The Recovery Village

Co-occurring conditions

Evidence-based addiction treatment together with counselling for co-occurring mental health conditions. Relevant when depression, anxiety or trauma sit underneath the substance use.

Alcohol Rehab Guide

Alcohol · information

A plain-English guide to alcohol addiction, treatment routes and what life without alcohol dependence involves. Useful reading before you commit to any programme.

Medically supervised detox

Withdrawal · safety

Detox is the process of clearing alcohol or drugs from the body, normally with medical supervision to manage withdrawal safely. Alcohol and benzodiazepine withdrawal in particular can be dangerous without it – never attempt those alone.

Center for Motivation and Change

Families · evidence-based

Practical, research-backed approaches for families — how to influence change in someone who is not yet ready, without ultimatums or confrontation.

Not sure which of these fits?

Punjabi Doc · free orientation

If this list is overwhelming, describe your situation in an email and I will point you toward the two or three worth your time. No cost, no obligation, no name required.

You are not the patient, but you are affected

Family & peer support

Free, widely available, and in most places you can walk in tonight.

Al-Anon Family Groups

Families & friends · free

Peer support for people affected by someone else’s drinking. Non-judgemental by design – nobody there needs the background explained, because they have lived it.

Alcoholics Anonymous

Individuals · free

Worldwide peer fellowship for people who want to stop drinking. Meetings run in most cities daily, in person and online, at no cost and without referral.

Narcotics Anonymous

Drug use · free

The equivalent fellowship for drug use rather than alcohol, including heroin and prescription opioids. Meetings are open, anonymous and free everywhere they operate.

A peer support group session
Practical

How to raise it with someone you are worried about

There is no perfect script, but there are approaches that reliably fail. Confrontation, ultimatums and shame put people on the defensive and buy silence, not change.

  • Pick the moment. Not while they are intoxicated, and not in front of the whole family.
  • Lead with what you have seen, not what you have concluded. “You have not been sleeping and you have missed work twice” lands very differently from “you are an addict.”
  • Ask, then stop talking. The point of the first conversation is to open a door, not to win it.
  • Do not attach conditions to your love. You can set firm limits on behaviour and money while making clear the relationship is not on the table.
  • Expect to repeat it. Almost nobody accepts help on the first ask. Being asked more than once is what makes the eventual yes possible.
  • Get your own support in place. You cannot carry this for years on nothing.